The Crappy House-guest: A True Story

At a family get together – not that long ago my husband had the pleasure of being introduced to some estranged extended family on my side. One of which, within moments of meeting, was fishing for an invitation to spend the night at our place about a week later on their way home. We were both hesitant. I – the relative – had not seen them in 2 or 3 years and we had never been close. (So you have a better understanding the estrangement we’ve been together for 4 year and the husband hasn’t met them until now.) I was thinking about all the terribly awkward things that could happen and then I decided that I would put my big girl pants on and invite them to stay with us. What is the worst thing that could happen? And they are family, right?

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Public Response: Men are Idiots Series

Men are Idiots Public Response | leave it to Joy

Well – it has been done. People have responded to my Men are Idiots Series. Most of them not agreeing with my complaints, which definitely surprised me. Here are some comments that I received:

  • From a woman: “Joy that is not bad”
  • From a man: “they are just trying to make your day”
  • From a man:they don’t expect sex”
  • From a woman: “shut up and stop complaining that people still tell you you’re pretty”
  • From a woman: “must be nice”

You can find the series here: Part I, Part II, and Part III.

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What is the Desired Outcome?! Men are idiots. Part III

Men are Idiots | leave it to Joy

In case you missed Part I and II: I have most of the features that society typically associates with beauty, and I am aware of it. I’m petite, with long hair, symmetrical facial features, a mostly clear complexion and I’m generally friendly.

Read the full posts here: Part I, Part II

Note: the following is factual and has happened to me exactly as depicted below.

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What is the Desired Outcome?! Men are idiots. Part II

Men are Idiots | leave it to Joy

In case you missed Part I: I have most of the features that society typically associates with beauty, and I am aware of it. I’m petite, with long hair, symmetrical facial features, a mostly clear complexion and I’m generally friendly.  You can read the full post here: Men are Idiots Part I 

Note: the following is factual and has happened to me exactly as depicted below.

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What is the Desired Outcome?! Men are idiots. Part I

Men are Idiots | leave it to Joy

I have most of the features that society typically associates with beauty, and I am aware of it. I’m petite, with long hair, symmetrical facial features, a mostly clear complexion and I’m generally friendly.

BUT let’s consider here HOW STUPID CAN MEN BE?

Note: the following is factual and has happened to me exactly as depicted below.

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